"So let me get this straight, if I say my people were wronged I am playing the victim? So if you say, "I am playing the victim" does that mean that you are now the victim because I brought up being wronged. Then I speak of History and I am told to get over it. It's in the past. So now I am tricked into remaining silent so you can stay comfortable then the conversation is over, except one thing, I do not care if you're comfortable, I AM NOT DONE TALKING."